The Infidelity Super Villain Ever wondered how Clark Kent got away with ‘hiding’ his real identity by combing his hair differently, and wearing some glasses? Or how nobody seemed to notice that beneath that innocuous trench coat, lurked The Thing? Affairs are often thinly disguised as only ‘being about sex’. …
Discovering an affair in your relationship is a shock and often the first response is one of panic. An affair shows you how tenuous the structure in your life really is: security, finances, home, companionship, shared stresses etc. Your panic bubbles up to the surface almost immediately, and your reaction …
The reason that so many affairs are conducted in secret is because the cheater seeks to retain their lifestyle, financial concerns and primary relationship/family, while engaging in an affair. This segregation of the affair relationship from the primary relationship is a manipulation of the faithful partner’s understanding of reality. In …
