Category Archives: Reconciliation

Affair Help: Transparency After the Affair

27 March, 2014
Transparency

The Transparency Trap “You must have transparency!” It’s typical advice in infidelity forums and one that is frequently espoused as a necessary part of reconciliation: When you discover that your partner is cheating/has cheated, demand and expect transparency from them if you wish to reconcile. What Does ‘Transparency’ Mean? Well, …

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Reconciliation: Healing From an Affair

11 December, 2013

One of the big questions a faithful spouse often asks after an affair is how to move their relationship forward after their partner has cheated. There is a myriad of information available to help answer this common question that might contain some (or all) of the following advice: Forgive the …

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Infidelity & Reconciliation

4 December, 2013

Infidelity: Can Couples Move Past It? by Rachel Pomerance Berl Try screaming into a sink full of water; it absorbs the sound. That’s an exercise that relationship guru Laura Berman suggests to couples coping with infidelity. The need for, and agony of, such a release reflects both the immense trauma …

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Martyr to the Marriage

14 October, 2013

Being committed to a healthy, respectful, and fulfilling marriage is an admirable trait, but what happens after an affair hits the relationship? Committed relationships aren’t perfect relationships, and most of us would agree that even where relationships are robust and honest they are still flawed in unique ways. Part of …

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Reconciliation Advice to a Cheater

26 August, 2013

Good Advice For The Cheating Husband by Amy Koko (edited) This post is dedicated to husbands who have committed adultery. Of course I realize wives do it too but I only write about things of which I know or have experienced first hand, and in this situation I was the …

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Forgive a Cheater? (Part 1)

13 August, 2013

My Husband’s a Cheating Rascal - But His Affair SAVED Our Marriage by Angela Carless Would you take your spouse back if they had an affair - and could betrayal really make a marriage stronger - could you forgive a cheater? It’s a question Helen Sampson, 52, had to ask …

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Affair Forgiveness

22 July, 2013

Forgiveness, With a Side of Grudge by Stephanie Anderson (edited) Have you told your cheating spouse you forgive him/her, only… you still harbor a colossal-sized grudge? It’s not unusual for an affair victim to try to rush the healing process, only to move even further apart from their spouse rather …

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Once a Cheater Always a Cheater?

2 July, 2013

Relationship Advice: Once a Cheater Always a Cheater? by Diana Kirschner. Ph.D. (edited) So you’ve been cheated on. It was devastating-like being kicked in the gut and thrown into the gutter. You couldn’t eat or function at work. Or maybe you were up all night watching old movies, crying and …

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Anthony Weiner Affair Scandal

24 May, 2013

This is a lengthy article written about Anthony Weiner and his wife, Huma Abedin. Affairs and infidelity can affect anyone, and Huma Abedin shares her thoughts and actions after the disclosure of her husband’s sex scandal. ~ Wayfarer [hr] Anthony Weiner and Huma Abedin’s Post-Affair Playbook by Jonathan Van Meter, …

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