Does A Woman’s Frequency Of Orgasm Predict Her Likelihood Of Cheating? by Dr. Justin Lehmiller Explaining the evolutionary significance of the female orgasm has long been a conundrum for scientists. Why does the female orgasm exist if it is not necessary for reproduction to occur? Numerous theories abound, with some …
Who Is Likely to Be Unfaithful, and Why? by Susan Krauss Whitbourne, Ph.D. An inside look at what causes infidelity The perspectives on relationships provided by attachment theory provide important insights in the factors that influence the course of a couple’s dynamics over time. According to attachment theory, the earliest …
I Cheated, Therefore I’m Not a Cheater by Dr Benjamin Le Most people generally believe that they are moral and good and that cheating on a partner is wrong. So how do cheaters live with themselves after their infidelity? Understanding how they reconcile their indiscretions with their beliefs about themselves can …
Yesterday’s post discussed how attachment style may influence someone’s decision to stay or leave a dysfunctional relationship. This article by Dr Dylan Selterman explores attachment theory in greater depth. You may also be interested in this post about Love Styles. ~ Wayfarer [hr] Attachment Theory: Explaining Relationship “Styles” by Dr Dylan …
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Denial Makes the World Go Round by Benedict Carey Varieties of denial include inattention, passive acknowledgment, re-framing and willful blindness. For years she hid the credit card bills from her husband: The $2,500 embroidered coat from Neiman Marcus. The $900 beaded scarf from Blake in Chicago. A $600 pair of …
It’s a familiar story, a faithful partner stunned by the suddenness of their cheater’s affair. Onlookers/friends/family can often quite cruelly exclaim, ‘How could you not have known?’ Sometimes the affair really does blindside the faithful partner, and suggesting that they were in some way ‘stupid’ for not seeing their partner’s …
The reason that so many affairs are conducted in secret is because the cheater seeks to retain their lifestyle, financial concerns and primary relationship/family, while engaging in an affair. This segregation of the affair relationship from the primary relationship is a manipulation of the faithful partner’s understanding of reality. In …
