Gaslighting & Denial in Affairs

I was browsing some articles from my RSS feed and happened across an article that listed some excuses that cheaters have given their partners when discovered in an affair. I selected some of the more eye-rollingly terrible ones to duplicate here.   Infidelity & Affair Excuses My friend was texting …

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Infidelity: An Affair of Deception

Deception: The Real Villain Behind Relationship Infidelity by Lisa Firestone, Ph.D. When we are honest with our partners, we are true to ourselves. When the topic of infidelity spills into our daily dose of media, we may say we saw it coming, or we may react with shock. Either way, …

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Gaslighting & Infidelity

Infidelity & Affair Help: Chump Lady

Gaslighting — The Fine Art of Making You Believe You’re Crazy by Tracy Schorn (edited) The late comedian Richard Pryor had a joke that went… His wife walks in on him having sex with another woman. Pryor tells his freaked out wife, hey, she didn’t see anything!  ”Who are you …

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Infidelity: There’s An App For That …

Call And Text Eraser

‘Smart’ Tools for Cheating I am the rather reluctant owner of a ‘Dumb-Phone’. My phone does little else than send and receive calls and texts (erratically at that), and might occasionally deign to notify me that I have a voicemail, three days after the fact. Its most sophisticated features are …

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