Archive | August, 2013

The Affair Heist: Being The Other Woman or Man

Affairs are Like Heists Gone Wrong. by Natalie Lue, Baggage Reclaim As the Other Woman or Man, you’re under the impression, even if it’s not directly stated, that for your participation, which as a result of deviating from your values may feel monumental, you’re going to share the ‘takings’ between you and run off into […]

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Dr George Simon

Minimization: “It Was ‘Just’ Sex …”

The reason that so many affairs are conducted in secret is because the cheater seeks to retain their lifestyle, financial concerns and primary relationship/family, while engaging in an affair. This segregation of the affair relationship from the primary relationship is a manipulation of the faithful partner’s understanding of reality. In withholding information from the faithful […]

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Reconciliation Advice to a Cheater

Good Advice For The Cheating Husband by Amy Koko (edited) This post is dedicated to husbands who have committed adultery. Of course I realize wives do it too but I only write about things of which I know or have experienced first hand, and in this situation I was the wife. I want to tell […]

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Affair Help: A Friend Has Cheated

You might also be interested in this post by David Trotter, What to Say to a Friend Having an Affair. ~ Wayfarer 9 Ways to Respond to a Friend Who’s Cheating by Shasta Nelson This time last year, I wrote a blog post that quickly became one of my most searched-for articles online: “Help! Should […]

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Should I Tell Her?

Help! Should I Tell My Friend that Her Husband Is Cheating on Her? by Shasta Nelson, M.Div. What should you do when you know that your friend’s significant other is cheating on her? You might expect a friendship advocate to champion, “Always tell your girlfriend the truth! Our loyalty is to each other!” And while […]

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