De Facto Law is Unfair to Wives and Children by The Telegraph, Australia (March 1 2009) “WITH this ring I thee wed, and all my worldly goods I thee endow,” says the groom. “For richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, for as long as we both shall live,” […]
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Leaving for the Other Person
Before You Leave Your Spouse For Your Lover, Consider This by Lesli Doares Having an affair and considering ending your marriage? Consider this before taking the plunge. That’s it. You’ve decided you’re leaving today to be with your soulmate. Never again will you settle for the dreary, disconnected existence you’ve been living, when you can […]
Affair STDs (STIs)
Do Cheaters Practice Safe Sex? by Dr Justin Lehmiller (edited) Affair STDs Although people almost universally agree that cheating is wrong, infidelity remains incredibly common. Most discussions about cheating tend to focus on the powerful emotional consequences of it; however, there are also some important health risks associated with infidelity. The reality is that when […]
Serial Cheaters: A Letter to an Advice Columnist
A letter to The Independent’s weekly advice column, The Help Desk, first published 2003. A Case of a Serial Philanderer by Louisa Sanders Letter from reader: I first met my lover 12 years ago. I was 30 and single, he was married. He is the love of my life and also the cause of terrible […]
Affair Consequences
It is easy to find advice and information about infidelity and affairs written from (or for) the perspective of the faithful partner. These thoughts are valuable and often give good advice and information, but having a balanced approach to this issue is important. Finding information to share here, that is written from the perspective of […]