A letter to The Independent’s weekly advice column, The Help Desk, first published 2003. A Case of a Serial Philanderer by Louisa Sanders Letter from reader: I first met my lover 12 years ago. I was 30 and single, he was married. He is the love of my life and also the cause of terrible […]
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After an Affair: Trust … and When to Let Go.
Trust After an Affair: Your Cheating Heart By Lee Nelson/Healthy Life Three years ago, Rachel from Schenectady had a lot of secrets. She was having an affair. “My husband knew I had an inappropriate relationship with another man — talking, texting, e-mailing and flirting. But he never believed I cheated in the physical sense. He […]
Trust After an Affair
After the Affair: Can You Ever Trust Again? By Dr Joy Davidson The media is agog these days with tales of public figures caught cheating on loyal, seemingly unsuspecting spouses. Amidst the uproar, it’s rare that reporters dig any deeper than the racy headlines or ask poignant questions, questions like: once the paparazzo leaves, if […]
Post-Affair Sex
Sex After Infidelity By Denise J. Charles Reconnecting sexually after an affair can be extremely difficult, but it is possible. Use these tips to help rekindle what was once there. The experience of infidelity in marriage has got to be one of the most devastating occurrences that any individual can face. We know instinctively, even […]