Affairs: Can We Want What We Already Have? During this talk, Perel made a comment that “responsibility and desire butt heads” and suggested that security and desire pull against each other, and yet are both needed by us. Perel believes that those who are encouraged to explore the world as an individual, but who have […]
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Post-Affair Sex
Sex After Infidelity By Denise J. Charles Reconnecting sexually after an affair can be extremely difficult, but it is possible. Use these tips to help rekindle what was once there. The experience of infidelity in marriage has got to be one of the most devastating occurrences that any individual can face. We know instinctively, even […]
Reconciliation After Infidelity
How Do You Start to Feel Attracted Again to Your Disloyal Spouse? Source: affaircare (edited) The first thing I did personally was to let go of the idea that “it” would “be like it used to be.” Sadly “the way it used to be” is dead and gone, and will never return. So for me the […]
Dr Shirley Glass Discusses Infidelity (Part 1)
Infidelity: Shattered Vows (Part 1) By Hara Estroff Marano, Shirley Glass (edited) Source: Psychology Today, originally published 1998. Rebuild your relationship by rebuilding trust. Then open “windows” in the relationship. Hold on to your wedding ring. It’s difficult, but possible, to repair the damage caused by infidelity. Increasingly, that’s what couples want. But let go […]
The Impact of Infidelity on Sex
Erotic Recovery After Infidelity by Dr Tammy Nelson (edited) Erotic recovery is a fundamental part of healing after an affair. Your erotic life together is a very basic relationship need. After infidelity, going back to being erotically and intimately connected with your partner can be complicated. Erotic recovery encompasses all of the emotional, physical and […]